Start with grating the corn and the fresh coconut in two separate bowls.
In a pan heat oil, crackle cumin seeds , some asafoetida, finely chopped green chillis and turmeric powder.
Add the grated corn and cook it on a low flame till it is cooked and the oil comes out from the sides.
At this stage add milk and stir continuously till all the milk has been soaked up and let it cook on a very low flame until the fat releases and the mixture again starts to leave the pan.
Cook until the desired texture is achieved (I prefer it to be of dropping consistency not to set ) Adjust with salt ,sugar and lime juice .
Mix some grated coconut and coriander leaves and also garnish with the same and serve with a wedge of lime.